I need a reallife advice

[MagicCowtard]

Hello everybody
As the title says i need a serious life advice. I started likeing this one gril when i was 14 and i think of her everyday still despite i am turning 20 this year and we never ever talked longer than 2 sentences with each other. I thought not seeing her would fix the problem (since school ended and i moved out). I still cant stop thinking about her. Everytime i see a girl which is not her i feel like betraying her if i talk to her. Who knows how to fix this disturbing situation?

[_DB_]

You are at exactly same situation as I am in.

Though I'm 3 years less experienced (I'm 17), but I can say, this feeling never goes. It takes a lot of time, as it's first one.

You just have two options, either suffer for some time or make her fall in love with you.

The 2nd option never works because love hardly wins in real life. You just meet a lot of temporary people in this duration.

What I do is, I just try to keep myself as busy as possible, either in gaming or studying. But it still don't work, I can't stay without having this feeling.

The feeling don't go away unless you are loved better by someone you admire.

Love is like money. You don't want to lose it. When you are losing it you become mad. Just don't go depressed or your condition will be even worse in next 2 years.

[MagicCowtard]

Thanks for u response. I thought that i was pretty much alone in this situation. Another problem is i am not good to movitate myself to be buisy all the time i am pretty laizy. I mean yeah there were days with 8 hours of aoe3 but thats not something that really helps me at any point. #Feelingsucks

[_DB_]

I dont even play aoe 3 now, and hardly play it, its last year of my school now, so I study like 6-7 hours per day (its summer holidays for me right now)

To get rid of this feeling, I aimed to score high this year so I can keep myself busy.

So I think you should also focus on a "new aim" which can keep you busy so its easier to forget.

[HeatitUP_]

Just say to her. I bought two tickets to this movie on accident and you're the first person I've thought of asking if you wanted to go so that ticket won't go to waste. Something along those lines. After the movie is over asks if she does oral and go from there!

[Jaeger]

Everybody goes trough this, and I did as well. Since you've almost never talked to her, it's important thing to realize is that you probably like her mostly because of looks. She might be really sweet personality or whatever, but mostly it comes down to being a potential mate. One way to realize this is to think about her as a 60 year old woman. Would you really think about her or like her that much? Probably not. This is important to realize because it is part of my main point: if you still have access to her, just try to talk to her like to any other person. If she likes you, fine. If she doesn't, then you can be at peace since you mostly like her because of looks, and there are plenty of other hot girls. I know it's really hard to talk to her (ESPECIALLY the first time), but you have to realize that girls are humans just like you.

Also, I know it's very tempting, but don't try to make yourself more likable to her. Being yourself not only makes you happier, but also increases your chances because girls like confidence. And if she doesn't like you it's fine, there are plenty more fishes in the sea. You can even still be her friend if you guys get along, but I would start with the goal of just giving it one shot for the hell of it, and if it works out fine, if not then that's okay too.

[_DB_]

when you like someone, you only see them, and for rest of the fishes it's blind.

Its just hard to gain sight when being blind.

I mean, it's not easy to fall in love with some other when you love someone.

Same applies to them, if they love someone else, not you, it won't be easy to make them fall in love with you...

[Mimsy for President]

I think you should move on. Don't torture yourself.

[sirmusket]

Hello everybody
As the title says i need a serious life advice. I started likeing this one gril when i was 14 and i think of her everyday still despite i am turning 20 this year and we never ever talked longer than 2 sentences with each other. I thought not seeing her would fix the problem (since school ended and i moved out). I still cant stop thinking about her. Everytime i see a girl which is not her i feel like betraying her if i talk to her. Who knows how to fix this disturbing situation?

well i just love every girl i speak to girls are OP
dont hurt yourself and dont cry 21 21 its just life , youll get used to it i guess

[japanesegeneral]

[Jaeger]

when you like someone, you only see them, and for rest of the fishes it's blind.

Its just hard to gain sight when being blind.

I mean, it's not easy to fall in love with some other when you love someone.

Same applies to them, if they love someone else, not you, it won't be easy to make them fall in love with you...

The think is that you probably don't really love them for who they are. If the girl was 50 years older you wouldn't love her, just think about it. Once you realize that I think you can begin to see the situation more objectively.

[japanesegeneral]

I think you should move on. Don't torture yourself.

Teach me how to do

[Jaeger]

@japanesegeneral

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The OP is your other ESOC account?

[fungu]

when you like someone, you only see them, and for rest of the fishes it's blind.

Its just hard to gain sight when being blind.

I mean, it's not easy to fall in love with some other when you love someone.

Same applies to them, if they love someone else, not you, it won't be easy to make them fall in love with you...

If you don't actually know the person you say you love, I'd call it a crush. And by knowing someone I mean spending considerable amounts of time with him/her.
There are downsides to everyones personality and honestly love is also hard work.

When you "fall in love" you create an ideal picture in your mind of this person. How she fulfills your needs and how you will be so happy if you could just have her.
It's a great feeling and should be enjoyed for sure. But it might not be realistic. I don't want to be a dick, I'm just saying that this a point of view to be considered when you are young and can't get over someone.

[iNcog]

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[Mimsy for President]

I think you should move on. Don't torture yourself.

Teach me how to do

Just fap while thinking to her. Usually when you really love someone, you simply can't. Well force yourself to do that...

[japanesegeneral]

@japanesegeneral

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The OP is your other ESOC account?

No he is just a good friend of mine. But we have a similar problem...

[deleted_user0]

@benj89

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you are needed in here please

[deleted_user]

Hello everybody
As the title says i need a serious life advice. I started likeing this one gril when i was 14 and i think of her everyday still despite i am turning 20 this year and we never ever talked longer than 2 sentences with each other. I thought not seeing her would fix the problem (since school ended and i moved out). I still cant stop thinking about her. Everytime i see a girl which is not her i feel like betraying her if i talk to her. Who knows how to fix this disturbing situation?

well i just love every girl i speak to girls are OP
dont hurt yourself and dont cry 21 21 its just life , youll get used to it i guess

Good boy.

[sirmusket]

Hello everybody
As the title says i need a serious life advice. I started likeing this one gril when i was 14 and i think of her everyday still despite i am turning 20 this year and we never ever talked longer than 2 sentences with each other. I thought not seeing her would fix the problem (since school ended and i moved out). I still cant stop thinking about her. Everytime i see a girl which is not her i feel like betraying her if i talk to her. Who knows how to fix this disturbing situation?

well i just love every girl i speak to girls are OP
dont hurt yourself and dont cry 21 21 its just life , youll get used to it i guess

Good boy.

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[sirmusket]

when you like someone, you only see them, and for rest of the fishes it's blind.

Its just hard to gain sight when being blind.

I mean, it's not easy to fall in love with some other when you love someone.

Same applies to them, if they love someone else, not you, it won't be easy to make them fall in love with you...

If you don't actually know the person you say you love, I'd call it a crush. And by knowing someone I mean spending considerable amounts of time with him/her.
There are downsides to everyones personality and honestly love is also hard work.

When you "fall in love" you create an ideal picture in your mind of this person. How she fulfills your needs and how you will be so happy if you could just have her.
It's a great feeling and should be enjoyed for sure. But it might not be realistic. I don't want to be a dick, I'm just saying that this a point of view to be considered when you are young and can't get over someone.

Oi this guy knows his stuff

[MagicCowtard]

when you like someone, you only see them, and for rest of the fishes it's blind.

Its just hard to gain sight when being blind.

I mean, it's not easy to fall in love with some other when you love someone.

Same applies to them, if they love someone else, not you, it won't be easy to make them fall in love with you...

If you don't actually know the person you say you love, I'd call it a crush. And by knowing someone I mean spending considerable amounts of time with him/her.
There are downsides to everyones personality and honestly love is also hard work.

When you "fall in love" you create an ideal picture in your mind of this person. How she fulfills your needs and how you will be so happy if you could just have her.
It's a great feeling and should be enjoyed for sure. But it might not be realistic. I don't want to be a dick, I'm just saying that this a point of view to be considered when you are young and can't get over someone.

Obviously but that does not help me at all? I know that stuff aswell but u should consider giving helpfull coments.

[fungu]

when you like someone, you only see them, and for rest of the fishes it's blind.

Its just hard to gain sight when being blind.

I mean, it's not easy to fall in love with some other when you love someone.

Same applies to them, if they love someone else, not you, it won't be easy to make them fall in love with you...

If you don't actually know the person you say you love, I'd call it a crush. And by knowing someone I mean spending considerable amounts of time with him/her.
There are downsides to everyones personality and honestly love is also hard work.

When you "fall in love" you create an ideal picture in your mind of this person. How she fulfills your needs and how you will be so happy if you could just have her.
It's a great feeling and should be enjoyed for sure. But it might not be realistic. I don't want to be a dick, I'm just saying that this a point of view to be considered when you are young and can't get over someone.

Obviously but that does not help me at all? I know that stuff aswell but u should consider giving helpfull coments.

In that case fapping while thinking about her, as mimsy suggested, is probably the way to go.

[MagicCowtard]

Whats fapping? Google translator is not helpful in that regard...

[momuuu]

Whats fapping? Google translator is not helpful in that regard...

masturbating.