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Sargsyan wrote:Theres no toxicity in our community, i feel like the ones who bring up that card are usually the ones who are being toxic sometimes


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to say that the community is toxic is a stretch
to say that the community is not toxic at all is also a stretch
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I make memes but i didnt plan to become a meme. Sorry
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It looks like @spanky4ever feels bullied because he is not in on the inside jokes that everyone seems to enjoy :chinese:

I have seen this before, someone pretending to protect someone who is "attacked" but all they really want is attention :P
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Kaiserklein wrote:Why this crying after a successful lan everyone enjoyed

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UrvyZnapy wrote:It looks like @spanky4ever feels bullied because he is not in on the inside jokes that everyone seems to enjoy :chinese:

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[Armag] diarouga wrote:
UrvyZnapy wrote:It looks like @spanky4ever feels bullied because he is not in on the inside jokes that everyone seems to enjoy :chinese:

she


I don’t think gender is very important on the internet. After all, if you want real equality on a message board then a lack of gender would be optimal.
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He is french, even his words have genders XD
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She has a point, people are a little too easily dismissive of it imo. I recall speaking out against this in ESOC's early days and as a mod I had a zero tolerance policy because these things have a tendency to become the norm and it's not healthy.

If we aren't sure what Garja thinks of it all, and we can't be, maybe the best course of action is to respect him and stop treating him like a living meme.
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Goodspeed wrote:stop treating him like a living meme.


Are you suggesting we kill him? That seems excessive
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Goodspeed wrote:If we aren't sure what Garja thinks of it all, and we can't be, maybe the best course of action is to respect him and stop treating him like a living meme.

Hahahahaha, oh no what if someone gets hurt!
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UrvyZnapy wrote:
Goodspeed wrote:If we aren't sure what Garja thinks of it all, and we can't be, maybe the best course of action is to respect him and stop treating him like a living meme.

Hahahahaha, oh no what if someone gets hurt!


This seems ironic but is actually a good thing to think
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When in doubt, pray to the G
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Goodspeed wrote:She has a point, people are a little too easily dismissive of it imo. I recall speaking out against this in ESOC's early days and as a mod I had a zero tolerance policy because these things have a tendency to become the norm and it's not healthy.

If we aren't sure what Garja thinks of it all, and we can't be, maybe the best course of action is to respect him and stop treating him like a living meme.

i agree. But i can only speak for people at the lan and everybody seemed to like him there. Altho Garja seems like a guy whos not that keen on voicing his opinion. For example if i was him i would have completly ignored diarouga at the lan,but he took a selfie with him, just shows what a nice guy he is.
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fightinfrenchman wrote:
UrvyZnapy wrote:
Goodspeed wrote:If we aren't sure what Garja thinks of it all, and we can't be, maybe the best course of action is to respect him and stop treating him like a living meme.

Hahahahaha, oh no what if someone gets hurt!


This seems ironic but is actually a good thing to think

Humans are very good at adapting and adapt all the time. It can be good and bad but if you adapt to fix a problem it's good right? It's called improvement/development/learning/experience and it's very important as long as the problem is not too strong to break you (why we protect small kids).
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lordraphael wrote:
Goodspeed wrote:She has a point, people are a little too easily dismissive of it imo. I recall speaking out against this in ESOC's early days and as a mod I had a zero tolerance policy because these things have a tendency to become the norm and it's not healthy.

If we aren't sure what Garja thinks of it all, and we can't be, maybe the best course of action is to respect him and stop treating him like a living meme.

i agree. But i can only speak for people at the lan and everybody seemed to like him there. Altho Garja seems like a guy whos not that keen on voicing his opinion. For example if i was him i would have completly ignored diarouga at the lan,but he took a selfie with him, just shows what a nice guy he is.

In regards to the lan, i don't think anyone had any real negativity towards anyone there, or at least that's the feeling i got.
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TheZeroEmpires wrote:
[Armag] diarouga wrote:
UrvyZnapy wrote:It looks like @spanky4ever feels bullied because he is not in on the inside jokes that everyone seems to enjoy :chinese:

she


I don’t think gender is very important on the internet. After all, if you want real equality on a message board then a lack of gender would be optimal.

I think the way anyone experiences life is through the lens of their particular, gendered experience of the world. There's a lot of research that shows men and women process things differently, both on an emotional and cognitive level.
So trying to somehow separate gender from the way someone experience life is a bit misguided and unrealistic, I think. And it's not likely to really solve anything, since men and women will continue to display those differences in how they relate to the world.

I know where such a call is coming from, though. It's part of the current zeitgeist to focus on equality as a general theme in everything, from rights to economic issues. But if you think about it, about what makes people even interested in communicating or making economic transactions, it's actually differences that make things work. People seek to buy products that they can't make on their own and watch content that they couldn't produce themselves. Because they perceive that differences are interesting and are a useful resource.

By trying to obscure differences, we're trying to accredit the notion that it's equality that makes the world turn and that the current imbalances are just a temporary issue that needs to be streamlined.
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No, by not focusing on differences people are trying to make it so that a little girl isnt raised to feel like shes a failure if shes not a mother and a homemaker
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Yep, there's literally no middle ground. Either total equality or medieval social roles.
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pecelot wrote:Yep, there's literally no middle ground. Either total equality or medieval social roles.
no theres literally not. Everyone should have the option to do whatever they want
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pecelot wrote:Yep, there's literally no middle ground. Either total equality or medieval social roles.

Why do you make these words sound like something extreme when it's just normal
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Kaiserklein wrote:
pecelot wrote:Yep, there's literally no middle ground. Either total equality or medieval social roles.

Why do you make these words sound like something extreme when it's just normal
Because he probably thinks people should be judged on sex, skin color etc instead of on their individual merits
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I see you're brilliant at judging people on your own.

The term equality is interpreted variously nowadays. Some believe people should be given equal opportunities to compete, whereas the others might be of the opinion that equality should be forced into competition. I referred to the latter.
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Which is a rather weak stance to take, purported if at all by fringe collectives.
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pecelot wrote:to say that the community is toxic is a stretch
to say that the community is not toxic at all is also a stretch
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Have you seen the rest of the internet? Sir Musket was probably the only toxic part of the community, and he is shunned by most people.

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