gibson wrote:Well ivan deserved to get banned for this post
Good ol Ivan wrote: But you are a Paki. If you don't like being a Paki why would you use a Paki flag and get offended when others call you a Paki?
If I was so insecure about being a Paki I wouldn't brag about it.
Go get help, for your own good.
There was some other borderline stuff he said as well but heres hes making a conceited effort to be antagonistic and racist.
Ah yes, because he wasn't being antagonistic at all. Nope. Just a very nice guy telling others how they are dumb and how he happens to be very smart. And upon confrontation he made really positive and veery constructive remarks as well. I wouldn't have pushed it so far if he actually bothered giving a serious reply and addressed the argument. He did not, and instead said I was stupid because he supposedly was intending to work on his PhD or whatever.
Okay, I can acknowledge that I might have crossed the line, but if you honestly think he did nothing wrong and do fall for his victim card, then you are really damn fucking stupid. That's the point I was trying to make.
And oh yeah, there's something else I want to talk about. Calling Paki a Paki being offensive is so stupid I don't even know where to begin with.
Sure if he was Indian and I called him Paki then I would understand the reaction.
If he was uncomfortable with his nationality because he identifies more as an American (because he does live in America), I would also get it. But if he identifies as someone from Pakistan and doesn't seem to have a problem with who he is, what he is, and where he comes from, then why is it so offensive?
The word doesn't imply something negative per se (unlike other slurs, like Beaner) neither, it literally just means person from Pakistan.
But if you think the word Paki is necessarily such a negative and racist slur, then you are the one who gives it a negative and offensive meaning. Again, it literally just means "Pakistani". It's a spook.
And I didn't even use it in a truly offensive context. I asked why he felt uncomfortable with it, he didn't answer and then insisted that I should get banned. Sure as hell I was being antagonistic, but I wasn't calling him names 'just' for the sake of it. Really nice guy, nothing toxic at all.